Tim Dowling: Can I conquer my wife's book club? I can divide it
Tim Dowling: Can I conquer my wife's book club?

Tim Dowling, a columnist, faced a tough crowd at his wife's book club when he chose Willa Cather's 1927 novel, 'Death Comes for the Archbishop,' as the monthly read. The selection, which he believed was a "banger," divided the group, with his wife openly expressing her disdain for the book, calling it "stupid priests riding around on donkeys everywhere."

A Controversial Choice

Dowling, who has a history of unpopular book picks, was determined to make a strong comeback. He suggested the classic novel, which he had read a year and a half prior, believing it would be an unassailable choice. However, his wife, who has repeatedly tried to bar him from the club, was not impressed. She argued that he wasn't a full member, describing him as a "mascot" rather than a participant.

Despite his enthusiasm, the choice sparked a heated debate. At the next meeting, held at Emma's house, the group was split. His wife and Emma hated the book, while Suzy loved it, even listing all the donkeys by name. The discussion became animated, and Dowling was asked to defend his choice, but he admitted he couldn't remember the details, having not re-read it.

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Defending the Indefensible

When Fran challenged him to defend his selection, Dowling confessed, "I can't, I don't remember anything. I read it, like, a year and a half ago." He had expected a "freebie" as the chooser, not a re-read. His wife seized the moment, declaring, "This is why he's never allowed to pick the book."

The episode highlights the dynamics of the book club, where Dowling's suggestions are often given less weight. He is the only male member, and his taste sometimes clashes with the majority. The first time he picked a book, everyone loathed it, including him. But this time, he hoped for a different outcome.

A Lesson in Book Club Politics

Dowling's experience underscores the challenges of participating in a group where his role is often marginalized. Despite his efforts, his choice led to a memorable, if contentious, meeting. The debate over 'Death Comes for the Archbishop' became a talking point, with opinions sharply divided. The book, set in the American Southwest, follows a Catholic priest's journey, a premise that didn't resonate with all members.

In the end, Dowling's attempt to conquer the book club failed, but it certainly divided it. His wife's assertion that he should not pick books was reinforced, and the club moved on, with Dowling's role as a "mascot" seemingly cemented.

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