A provocative new Valentine's Day sex retreat is preparing to welcome adventurous couples and singles this February in the heart of Berkshire. Organised by the renowned kink-positive events company Killing Kittens, this exclusive getaway promises an immersive experience in a secretive grade II-listed Victorian manor, situated just thirty minutes by train from London.
An Exclusive Venue with Growing Demand
Nestled within eighty acres of meticulously landscaped grounds, the undisclosed location offers convenient access for international travellers via nearby Heathrow Airport. This marks the company's second such retreat at this venue, following a successful inaugural event in October last year, which attracted media attention including a visit from Metro journalist Josie Copson.
The retreat caters to those seeking to explore their sexuality, whether with a partner during the year's most romantic weekend or as singles looking for meaningful connections. Attendance comes at a premium price point, with tickets costing £1,300 for solo attendees or £2,600 for couples covering all three nights from Thursday through Saturday.
Despite the significant investment, Killing Kittens reports a remarkable 400% increase in participation in recent years, reflecting broader cultural shifts. With an estimated 1.5 million Britons now embracing swinging lifestyles, demand for such experiences continues to rise substantially. The fee includes comprehensive accommodation, all meals, and scheduled activities throughout the weekend, though beverages remain an additional expense.
A Comprehensive Programme of Sensual Workshops
The retreat's schedule offers an extensive array of workshops designed to cater to diverse interests and experience levels. Participants can select from numerous activities, though the packed timetable means attending all sessions proves impossible.
Hands-On Learning Experiences
Among the most talked-about offerings are intimate massage classes, including specialised sessions for both penis and vulva massage techniques. Journalist Josie Copson documented her observations from attending such a class, describing an instructor demonstrating techniques on a male model before an audience of approximately thirty couples who later practised on each other.
Additional physical workshops include shibari (Japanese rope bondage) sessions, alongside burlesque and striptease classes designed to build confidence and technique. For those interested in BDSM, both beginner and advanced workshops provide structured learning environments.
Alternative Creative and Psychological Sessions
For participants preferring less physically intensive activities, a Neon Life Drawing Class offers opportunities for both posing and artistic creation. The programme also features workshops on erotic impact (focused on spanking techniques), scene building, fantasy exploration, and guidance for first-time play party attendees.
Notably, the retreat includes psychological components, with dedicated classes helping couples manage jealousy and navigate complex emotional dynamics within unconventional relationships.
Evening Entertainment and Morning Recovery
As daylight fades, the experience transforms with candlelit dining experiences accompanied by cabaret performances, culminating in a themed Valentine's Ball. The evening reaches its peak with the opening of dedicated playrooms around 11pm, where participants can explore consensual activities in specially prepared spaces.
Josie Copson's account describes these late-night sessions, noting transformed atmospheres where formal attire gives way to intimate wear, and specially arranged spaces facilitate group encounters. Following these intense evenings, mornings adopt a more restorative pace with yoga, meditation, ritual practices, and freshly prepared juices designed to rejuvenate participants.
Essential Guidelines for Participation
All attendees must adhere to Killing Kittens' three core values: privacy, confidentiality, and discretion. These principles prohibit revealing other participants' identities and require respectful conduct free from harassment, abuse, or harm.
Additional rules emphasise transparency about relationships—attendees must not misrepresent their connections with others, whether past or present. This commitment to honesty ensures all interactions remain consensual and ethically grounded throughout the weekend experience.
