Valentine's Day Gift Guide: From Mild to Wild Saucy Surprises
Valentine's Day is approaching, and if you're seeking the perfect saucy gift for your partner, look no further. As an award-winning expert with over two decades in the sexual wellbeing and pleasure sector, I've tested thousands of products, from vibrators to BDSM gear. My home even has a loft room dedicated to storing X-rated testers and prototypes. Trust me to guide you through the best gifts, whether you prefer something mild or wildly adventurous. Let's dive into a world of turmeric latte massage bars, crotchless teddies, and more.
The Best Sex Toys and Gifts for Valentine's Day
Sex Toys
Lelo Sona 3 Cruise sonic clitoral massager: Priced at £134.99 to £139, this waterproof and rechargeable toy uses sonic waves instead of vibrations for clitoral stimulation. It features SmoothRise technology for seamless intensity shifts and app control with patterns like "Finish Me Off" for intense climaxes.
Vacation Vibes the Aspen G-spot vibrator: At £70, this female-founded brand offers toys inspired by holiday destinations. The Aspen has a flexible design for comfortable G-spot stimulation, avoiding the rigidity of traditional probes.
Je Joue ILY Pebble vibrator: Ranging from £31.99 to £45.28, this soft, squishy toy is ideal for beginners. It offers rumbly, low-frequency vibrations and versatile positioning for gentle exploration.
Lovense Lover Set: For £199, this set includes a masturbation sleeve, feather tickler, blindfold, wrist cuffs, and tech toys like the Lush 4 and Gush 2. These app-controlled devices allow remote play, perfect for long-distance couples.
Ann Summers heart glitter dildo: At £25, this realistic dildo features heart-shaped glitter and a suction cup base for hands-free use. It caters to those who prefer anatomical toys over abstract designs.
Chakrubs rose quartz dildo: Priced from £118 to £130, these crystal toys are non-porous and safe for intimate use. They offer a beautiful, classy gift option without unsubstantiated healing claims.
Scents, Lubes, and Lustful Liquids
Twinkle Tongue saliva enhancer gel: Around £26.20, this gel boosts saliva flow with citrus extracts and Spilanthes flower, ideal for enhancing oral experiences.
Borntostandout Cuvée Skin eau de toilette: At £163.40 for 50ml, this gender-neutral perfume smells like champagne on skin, part of a saucy collection including scents like Fig Porn and Filthy Musk.
Lush Sex Bomb and Turmeric Latte massage bars: £10 each, these solid bars use Fair Trade butters for mess-free massage. Turmeric Latte offers a spicy, vanilla scent for a sensual rub-down.
Eris Parfums Delta of Venus eau de parfum: £145 for 50ml, inspired by Anaïs Nin's erotic stories, this guava-based scent evokes tropical, grown-up romance.
Slyde Body Intimacy Elixir and luxury oil set: £49.95, this water-based lube is natural and odourless, while the massage oil with peppermint and lavender is perfect for focused, micro massages.
Jewellery That Speaks Your Love Language
Crave Vesper 2 rose gold vibrator necklace: £185, this minimalist pendant is a discreet vibrator with three intensity options, USB rechargeable and waterproof.
Studiocult heart-shaped carabiner clip earring: £27, blending girly aesthetics with LGBTQ+ symbolism, this lightweight earring nods to lesbian culture.
Lily & Roo Special Date Necklace: From £79 to £99, customise this necklace with a birthstone to commemorate special dates, from romantic getaways to fetish club visits.
Build Your Own Bunch of 'Roses'
Bondara Kiss From A Rose ball gag: £26.99, a vented silicone gag for comfortable BDSM play, emphasising safety with non-verbal safe signs.
Satisfyer 2 Pro Modern Blossom clitoral stimulator: £33.95 to £17.99, this floral-shaped toy offers air-pulse suction with a 15-year guarantee and 11 speed patterns.
Marvis Kissing Rose toothpaste and Curaprox Love Edition toothbrushes: £8.95 and £11.50 respectively, these dental products add a romantic touch with rose-flavoured paste and heart-shaped brush heads.
The Natural Love Company Litsea glass flower butt plug: £35, an ideal size for beginners, easy to clean and temperature-adjustable.
Bloom & Wild the Cathy Bouquet: £39, a waste-reducing arrangement with antique pink and orange roses, inspired by Wuthering Heights.
Piper-Heidsieck rosé sauvage champagne, Four Roses bourbon with rose-shaped ice moulds, and Cygnet Infinity alcohol-free botanical spirit: From £31.99 to £55.25, these drinks offer romantic options, including a non-alcoholic adaptogenic spirit.
Lingerie and Hosiery
Thistle and Spire Chanterelle bodysuit: £120, featuring mushroom-themed embroidery and inclusive sizing for diverse body types.
Clipher clip-off thongs: £10, with heart-shaped clips for easy removal, perfect for striptease beginners.
Bluebella Gia Heart lingerie range: From £18, bold heart designs in black and pink, offering graphic and affordable options.
Ann Summers Queen Of Hearts crotchless teddy: £30, practical for hiding insecurities or skin issues while enhancing confidence.
Betty Statement tights: £24, made from recycled yarn with a 30-day anti-run guarantee.
Miscellaneous Marvellousness
Personalised heart-shaped vintage-style cake: From £30.99, an egg-free sponge with custom messages, ideal for couples or polyamorous groups.
Sponsor a gay sheep: From £31.20, a witty gift supporting Rainbow Wool's rescue efforts and queer rights charities.
National Art Pass: From £39.75, offering access to UK museums and exhibitions, perfect for couples who enjoy art and romance.
For more insights, explore tested vibrators and ways to spice up your love life. Alix Fox, an expert in sexual culture, continues to share her knowledge through writing and broadcasting.
