Nelli Gbadebo, a 29-year-old mother of three from Croydon, South London, was diagnosed with estrogen-positive breast cancer that had spread to her lymph nodes after being told by a midwife that lumps in her breast were normal during her first pregnancy. She later found another lump during her third pregnancy and insisted on further examination, leading to her diagnosis in 2023.
Diagnosis and Treatment
Gbadebo underwent chemotherapy and radiotherapy after being diagnosed at age 26. To reduce the risk of recurrence, doctors medically induced early menopause at 29 by shutting off her estrogen hormones. She described the experience as challenging, especially with a three-year-old child, and felt isolated during treatment.
Creating Touchy Feely
After going public with her story, Gbadebo connected with other Black women facing similar struggles. She founded Touchy Feely, a cultural group aiming to bridge the gap between culture and cancer. The group provides support for Black and Brown people, who often face pressure to perform despite serious illness.
Upcoming Event: The Girls' Bathroom
On Saturday, July 18, Gbadebo will host a pop-up event called 'The Girls' Bathroom' at UNLOCKED in Shoreditch, in partnership with the North London Cancer Alliance. The event offers a judgment-free space for women, especially ethnic minorities, to discuss breast health, access GPs, and hear from cancer survivors and professionals. Activities include facilitated conversations, private consultations, and a photo feedback wall, with live music from a DJ.
Advocacy and NHS Partnership
Gbadebo emphasizes that women are being diagnosed younger, and age should not be an excuse to dismiss symptoms. She has partnered with the NHS to improve culturally competent cancer care. 'Cancer doesn't discriminate; it doesn't care about your age, your race or your financial status – it can affect everyone,' she said.
