Blind Date Experience: Brigitte and Jack's London Evening
In a classic blind date setup, Brigitte, a 27-year-old admissions officer for a nursery group, met Jack, a 30-year-old teacher, for dinner at Don't Tell Dad in London NW6. The evening, part of a long-running dating column that pairs strangers weekly since 2009, offered insights into modern dating dynamics, blending hopes for romance with the reality of friendship.
First Impressions and Conversation Flow
Jack's initial impression of Brigitte was positive, noting her honesty and quick laughter as they bonded over a shared struggle to find the venue door. The conversation flowed effortlessly, covering topics from the novel Hamnet—which they agreed was not emotionally manipulative—to travel, the book series Heated Rivalry, and Wheel of Time. Brigitte found Jack's kind face and warmth immediately put her at ease, leading to discussions on favorite landscapes, board games, sport documentaries, and the challenges of making friends in adulthood.
Awkward Moments and Evening Highlights
The most awkward moment occurred when Jack suggested a bar for a post-dinner drink, but loud music forced them to leave after one beverage. Despite this, both praised each other's table manners as impeccable. Brigitte appreciated Jack's storytelling skills and inquisitive nature, describing him as engaging, inquisitive, and kind. Jack admired Brigitte's relaxed and easygoing demeanor, labeling her kind, funny, and chatty.
Reflections on Connection and Future Plans
When asked about romantic potential, neither kissed, but they shared a nice hug. Brigitte rated the evening a perfect 10 for great company, while Jack gave it an 8, citing a less-than-ideal three-bus journey home as a minor drawback. Both expressed openness to meeting again, likely as friends, having exchanged numbers. Brigitte reflected that while a romantic connection would have been nice, Jack was lovely company, achieving two out of three hopes: a lovely time and a fancy dinner.
Blind Date Column Details
The blind date column, featured in Saturday magazine and online at theguardian.com, invites applicants to share interests and preferences for matching, though participants cannot choose their date or photograph. Personal details like first name, job, and age are published, with answers edited for length and clarity. Applicants must be based in the UK, with many from London, and can apply by emailing blind.date@theguardian.com.
