Friction-Maxxing: Embracing Effort in an AI-Driven Era
In a world increasingly dominated by artificial intelligence and digital convenience, a counter-trend is emerging: friction-maxxing. This concept, which might initially sound absurd, involves deliberately choosing more effortful, time-consuming, or analog methods over automated shortcuts. From cooking meals from scratch instead of ordering delivery to navigating with road signs rather than a satnav, friction-maxxing represents a form of creative resistance against the pervasive influence of big tech in our daily lives.
The Origins and Critique of Friction-Maxxing
Coined by writer Kathryn Jezer-Morton in January, friction-maxxing has sparked debate. Critics argue that activities like meeting friends in person or reading physical books are merely rebranded versions of ordinary living, not groundbreaking challenges. Our grandparents, after all, would have found such tasks routine, not feats of resilience. However, Jezer-Morton's point is precisely that these actions are not inherently difficult; instead, they offer deep meaning and joy, countering the modern narrative that labels them as boring, awkward, or tiring.
This trend challenges the notion that outsourcing mental and emotional labor to apps is liberating, akin to how household appliances freed 1950s housewives from physical chores. For tech enthusiasts focused on efficiency, maximizing convenience might make sense, but it risks creating a life devoid of human interaction and personal growth.
The Cognitive Risks of AI Convenience
Unlike past labor-saving devices that targeted physical tasks, current AI tools often replace mental labor. While washing machines haven't deskilled us in meaningful ways, AI's impact on cognitive abilities is concerning. A study from Carnegie Mellon University and Microsoft suggests that reliance on AI at work can enhance efficiency but reduce independent problem-solving skills. Similarly, research from MIT indicates that writers using large language models show decreased brain activity in areas linked to creativity and attention.
As researcher Nataliya Kosmyna notes, "Your brain needs friction to learn." The effort of processing information ourselves helps retention, explaining why students using ChatGPT may struggle to recall content from their own essays. This isn't just about diminished reader experiences; writers using AI shortcuts cheat themselves out of the creative process, missing opportunities to refine ideas through trial and error.
Friction in Personal and Social Life
Friction-maxxing extends beyond work into personal realms, where it fosters emotional regulation and patience. Making tasks slightly harder forces us to slow down and think, reducing impulsive actions like sending angry texts. In relationships, friction is inherent—living with loved ones or raising children involves constant negotiation and effort. Democracy itself relies on friction, as it requires accommodating diverse opinions and resistance.
Embracing friction means accepting that rubbing against the world's resistance is part of being human. It fuels love, engagement, and intellectual growth. In an era where AI threatens to smooth out all rough edges, friction-maxxing reminds us that effort and challenge are essential for a vibrant, meaningful existence.



