From London to Ireland: A Father's Journey and Three Things He Misses Most
In 2023, after welcoming their first child, my partner and I made a life-altering decision. We left our compact one-bedroom flat in Greenwich, southeast London, where we had lived for several years, and returned to Ireland after eight years in the capital. This move, driven by the desire for family support and a more affordable lifestyle, has brought immense joy, but it also comes with a sense of nostalgia for certain aspects of London life.
The Decision to Leave London
My journey to London began in 2017, fresh from university exams in Dublin. With my girlfriend already settled there, I secured a journalism position shortly after arriving. Over the years, I built a career as a national reporter and embraced London's culture, particularly as a season ticket holder for Tottenham Hotspur, enjoying matches at Wembley and the new stadium. However, the birth of our daughter in 2023 changed everything. In our cramped flat, with both families based in Ireland, we faced a stark choice: stretch our budget for a larger rental and expensive childcare in London, or return home. We chose the latter, joining many Irish expatriates who eventually head back after years abroad.
Three Things I Miss About London
Now settled in rural Ireland, near scenic lakes and between our families in County Meath and County Cavan, life is peaceful. We've welcomed a second child and purchased our first property, achievements that felt unattainable in London. Yet, despite the benefits, three elements of London life linger in my memory.
1) Public Transport
In London, getting around was effortless. The Underground, DLR, buses, overground trains, and walking offered a wealth of options. In contrast, outside Dublin, a car is essential in Ireland. My only alternative to gridlocked traffic is Bus Éireann, which has consistently delivered delays over 30 minutes and overcrowding, leaving passengers standing in unsafe conditions. Dublin's public transport pales in comparison to London's network. Londoners who complain about delays or strikes should appreciate the reliability and convenience they often take for granted.
2) Sporting Events
Attending live sporting events is a sorely missed luxury. I now watch Spurs on television, which might be for the best given their recent struggles. But it wasn't just football; it was the vibrant atmosphere of pubs along Tottenham High Road, meeting friends, and events like Wimbledon on Henman Hill. Martial arts events, such as George Groves at Wembley Arena or UFC London at The O2, were highlights. While Ireland offers sports like GAA and rugby, nothing compares to having Premier League football on your doorstep, including memorable away days at Arsenal, Fulham, or Manchester United.
3) Weather
This is beyond anyone's control, but London's climate is notably milder with less rainfall. In Ireland, sunny days are rare, prompting a rush to mow lawns when they appear. The contrast in weather is a subtle yet persistent reminder of life in the capital.
No Regrets About the Move
Despite these misses, I harbor no regrets. Our daughter is thriving at nearly three years old, close to her grandparents, and we enjoy family support that was absent in London. Purchasing a property here was feasible, unlike in London's unattainable housing market. Life is more peaceful, and I've found balance through Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu sessions, which benefit my mental and physical health more than watching my struggling football club. Plus, Ireland excels in one area: enjoying a pint of Guinness at the local pub. So, while I reminisce about London's transport, sports, and weather, I raise a glass to our new life—Sláinte!
