Russell Crowe has reportedly offered some straightforward counsel to Nicole Kidman in the wake of her separation from Keith Urban. According to a source at Globe Magazine, Crowe, who has maintained a friendship with Kidman since the 1990s, is advising her to steer clear of the dating scene for now.
Focus on Family and Personal Growth
The insider explained that Crowe, drawing from his own experiences as a single parent after his divorce from Danielle Spencer, believes that time alone can foster significant personal development. "He has spent years of his life as a single parent without a partner, and he says he experienced a lot of growth during those times," the source revealed. "That's why he's warning Nicole not to dive headfirst into a new relationship to fill the void left by Keith's absence."
Crowe's Secret to Happiness
Crowe's guidance emphasizes prioritizing children and a more relaxed lifestyle. The source noted, "Russell's secret to happiness and to dealing with the demons has been to focus on his children above everything else." This advice comes as Kidman, who reportedly did not want the divorce and fought to save her marriage, navigates life post-split.
Encouraging a Slower Pace
Beyond dating, Crowe is said to be urging Kidman to spend more time in her native Australia and reduce her workload. The insider stated, "Russell had also been trying to convince the Scarpetta star to spend more time in Australia, while recommending she works less and 'lives' more." This approach mirrors Crowe's own lifestyle changes since his divorce was finalized in 2018.
Impact on Kidman's Career and Well-being
The source highlighted Kidman's prolific career as a producer-actress, suggesting that her constant work schedule may have strained her marriage. "It's going to be interesting to see if Nicole takes Russell's advice to heart. She has been one of the most prolific producer-actresses on Earth for a while now, and her constantly working could not have been healthy for her marriage," they said. Crowe believes that adopting a more relaxed schedule could be key to her finding lasting happiness.
Background on the Relationships
Crowe separated from his wife, Australian singer Danielle Spencer, in 2012, with their divorce finalized in 2018. The couple first met in 1989, had an on-off relationship, and married in 2003, sharing two sons. Kidman and Urban were together for 20 years, married for 19, and have two daughters, Sunday Rose, 17, and Faith Margaret, 15. Their wedding in Sydney in 2006 was attended by close friends, including Crowe.
The insider concluded that Crowe's advice stems from "genuine love and respect for Nicole," making it a heartfelt gesture during this challenging time. Whether Kidman heeds this counsel remains to be seen, but it underscores the importance of self-care and family focus in the aftermath of a high-profile divorce.
