In the latest instalment of The Guardian's long-running Blind Date column, two strangers discovered that romantic chemistry can be elusive, even amidst flowing cocktails and good conversation.
The Setup: Hopes and First Impressions
Alex, a 31-year-old academic, met Rachel, a 28-year-old university caseworker, for an evening at The Parlour in the upscale Great Scotland Yard Hotel in London. Alex had hoped for a compelling plotline and a potential connection, while Rachel was seeking a fun alternative to dating apps and a potential plus-one for the upcoming wedding season.
First impressions were largely positive. Rachel was immediately struck by Alex's confidence and his "flowing locks," which helped put her at ease. Alex found Rachel looking glamorous, though he noted she seemed a bit nervous and confessed to feeling underdressed upon seeing the fancy hotel. "She told me she'd changed outfit when she saw how nice the place was," he revealed.
The Date Unfolds: From AI to ACL Injuries
Their conversation was wide-ranging and eclectic. They discussed everything from soul music and techno to the more niche topics of anterior cruciate ligament (ACL) injuries and academic misconduct. They even delved into star sign compatibility, though Alex noted the results were "incompatible," prompting a swift change of subject.
The evening was not without its awkward moments. A misunderstanding occurred when they informed their waiter they were with The Guardian. "The waiter thought we meant we were with our legal guardian," Alex recalled. Another peculiar incident involved the waiter asking if Alex wanted to down his wine in one go, leaving both daters unsure if it was a joke.
The Verdict: A Platonic Conclusion
Despite excellent table manners and a genuinely enjoyable rapport, a romantic spark failed to ignite. Both praised the other's qualities; Alex described Rachel as "kind, curious and intelligent," while Rachel found Alex to be "charismatic, intelligent and authentic."
However, the outcome was decided before the night was even over. "She friend-zoned me over text before the night was through!" Alex shared. The date concluded with two hugs and no kiss. They moved from the hotel restaurant to the hotel bar for cocktails, but the vibe, as Rachel noted, lacked flirtation.
When rating the experience, Alex gave it a solid 8 out of 10, while Rachel scored it a 7.5. Both agreed they would be happy to meet again, but strictly as friends. Alex's only regret was the timing on a weekday, as the free cocktails made for a rough morning at work.
The Guardian's Blind Date column, running since 2009, continues to pair strangers for dinner and drinks, offering a candid glimpse into the modern dating world.
