Metro's new sex columnist Sydney Summers has shared a story about a drunken one-night stand that turned into an unexpected kink exploration. After accidentally spilling a drink on a handsome man named Adam at a London cocktail bar, Summers brought him home, only to discover he had a humiliation kink — he wanted her to degrade his penis.
The accidental encounter
Summers, who writes for Metro's sex column, described meeting Adam after her gin and tonic splashed onto his crisp white shirt. 'Oops, sorry!', she exclaimed. Noticing his toned body, she blurted out, 'Okay, cute.' After a few drinks, her flirting became direct: 'I told him he could take his shirt off and I could just suck it off of that.'
The pair left the bar hand in hand, took the wrong bus, and eventually arrived at Summers' flat an hour later. They immediately began kissing and undressing in her bedroom. Adam climbed on top of her and, after just over a minute, had an orgasm. Summers said she was surprised but didn't say anything to avoid embarrassing him.
The confession
After he came, Adam asked, 'Was that okay?' Summers replied, 'Uh yeah, sure,' but added, 'But I still want to orgasm, so can we go again?' When she tried to pull him back, he hesitated and said, 'Okay, but first – I want you to do one thing for me.'
He confessed, 'I have this kink,' and after Summers assured him all kinks are weird, he revealed: 'I like to be humiliated.' Specifically, he wanted to be told his penis was small. Summers looked at his 'fairly regular-sized penis' and initially protested, but then remembered his kink and agreed.
Acting out the fantasy
Summers got Adam to stand up and began pointing and laughing, saying, 'It's tiny, it's so tiny! I can't even see it! Where is it?!' She continued degrading him until he finally looked up from the floor, smiled, and said, 'Thanks.' He had loved it. Afterwards, he thanked her with 'some of the best head I'd ever had.'
Summers reflected, 'Kinks are fun, outrageous and sometimes weird – but where possible, and within my own comfort – I love to fulfil them, instead of…well, humiliating the person.' Adam left that same night while she was asleep, and she never heard from him again. However, she had a great story to share with friends the next day.
