Philip, 74, an antiquarian book dealer, and Carol, 66, who is retired, met for a blind date arranged by the Guardian's dating column. The pair shared a meal at Eataly London in EC2 and reported a positive experience, despite some minor missteps.
First Impressions and Conversation
Both arrived early and caught each other's eye, sharing a smile. Philip described it as "a nice moment." Their conversation ranged widely, covering topics such as Andy Burnham, Elvis Costello, dogs, U3A groups, trains to Italy, the deficiencies of dating apps, and the pointlessness of shyness in later life. Carol noted that they discussed what life looks like as we get older, their different careers, and Ian McKellen.
Awkward Moments and Table Manners
Philip said there were no awkward moments, even when Carol sent her G&T flying, calling it "just funny." Carol acknowledged a few tiny missteps but said they took them in stride. Both praised each other's table manners: Philip noted Carol's were good, while Carol highlighted that Philip checked if she was okay with him ordering steak tartare and shared his salad.
Best Traits and Descriptions
Philip described Carol as warm, accomplished, and quirky, loving the little streak of pink in her hair. He said the best thing about her was that she's fun to be with. Carol described Philip as confident, curious, and interesting, adding that the best thing about him was that he is interesting and a good conversationalist.
Post-Date and Future Plans
They linked arms until parting ways. Philip would not change a thing about the evening, while Carol was also unsure she would change anything. They exchanged a peck on the cheek and a hug, but no kiss. Philip rated the date 9 out of 10 and said he would meet again. Carol gave an 8 and confirmed they had swapped numbers.
Reflections
Philip admitted he was not good at reading people, saying, "She seemed to like me, but I've been wrong about this kind of thing before." Carol hoped Philip found her "easy to talk to." Both expressed openness to meeting again, with Philip stating a clear yes and Carol noting they had exchanged numbers.
