Top 20 Signs of Sisterhood Code Revealed in New Study
Sisterhood Code: Top 20 Signs of Female Bonding

Doing the quick 'Are you okay?' check-in is the number one sign of 'sisterhood,' according to a new study. Sharing tissues, plasters, safety pins, phone chargers, and hair ties are fundamental parts of being in the sisterhood, as revealed by a poll of 2,000 females.

The Sisterhood Code Unveiled

The top 20 signs that show you are a member of the 'sisterhood' include tucking in a clothing label, warning of a wardrobe malfunction, and not going to bed until you know everyone is safely home. The poll uncovered the 'sisterhood code,' a secret language women share with each other, which involves giving a look when someone needs rescuing from a conversation and doing a daily 'are you okay?' check-in.

Key Signs of Sisterhood

Other signs include being on hand to distract a girlfriend's child if they are trying to concentrate (27 per cent), telling someone if there is no loo roll in the cubicle (41 per cent), and fixing a bra strap discreetly (37 per cent). Sharing tissues, plasters, safety pins, phone chargers, and hair ties are also fundamental parts of being in the sisterhood.

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The study was commissioned by Maltesers, which has teamed up with Angela Scanlon and Judi Love to bring the Sisterhood Code to life in a short film where the duo share their thoughts on the unspoken moments women instantly recognise—and why they matter.

Unspoken Communication

It also found 37 per cent of women have a mutual unspoken form of communication with their gal pals, and 68 per cent can communicate or carry a conversation with them using only eye contact. The average woman will also do something that represents the 'sisterhood code' three times a week.

A spokesperson from Maltesers said: 'These moments might be subtle, but they speak volumes. From a knowing look across the room to stepping in without a word, the sisterhood code is built on empathy, instinct and having each other's backs - often before anything needs to be said. They are the quick looks, quiet nudges and instant lift that women give one another and a reminder that this special code is woven into the everyday moments that matter most.'

Support and Loyalty

The study also found 46 per cent would describe the 'sisterhood code' as something that is mostly unspoken – and can be understood without anything being said. More than half (56 per cent) can often tell what another woman needs or is feeling without her having to say it out loud, while 31 per cent believe incorporating the sisterhood code in everyday life is very important, as 44 per cent associate it with support and 23 per cent with loyalty.

The places women are most likely to use this covert form of communication include in a bar or nightclub (36 per cent), public toilets (26 per cent), and in the workplace (22 per cent).

Positive Impact

It also emerged 68 per cent generally feel supported by other women, and 77 per cent think women should support each other to look on the light side of life. When experiencing the secret sisterhood code, 77 per cent of those polled, via OnePoll.com, said it improves their day.

Eight in 10 reckon a moment of shared humour or a small gesture from another woman can instantly turn a bad day into a better one.

The spokesperson from Maltesers added: 'Whether it is a glance, a gesture or a quiet step-in, the sisterhood code is a shared language that shows up in everyday life, reminding women that they are rarely facing things alone. It reflects an unspoken understanding as well as a powerful mix of emotional intelligence, intuition and mutual support that plays out daily, often without anyone even realising.'

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Top 20 Secret Signs of the Sisterhood Code

  1. Doing the quick 'Are you okay?' check-in
  2. Complimenting someone's outfit
  3. Giving a look when someone needs rescuing from a conversation
  4. Tucking in a clothing label
  5. Telling someone if there is no loo roll in the cubicle
  6. Warning of a wardrobe malfunction
  7. Telling someone if their makeup is smudged
  8. Telling someone if they have something in their teeth
  9. Sharing a smile to boost someone else's mood
  10. Passing a tissue, plaster, or safety pin when needed
  11. Fixing a bra strap / dress zip / necklace clasp discreetly
  12. Never being judgemental
  13. Helping lift a pushchair upstairs or off public transport
  14. Going to the loo together on a night out
  15. Holding someone's place in a queue
  16. Protecting a female colleague in a meeting when it is getting frustrating
  17. Distracting a friend's kids while she is trying to concentrate
  18. Letting someone borrow your charger/power bank in an emergency
  19. Offering a hair tie / bobby pin when someone needs one
  20. Not going to bed until all your party have messaged to say they are home safe