Derek Jacobi on Aids, Ageing, and Failing to Boil an Egg
Derek Jacobi on Aids, Ageing, and Failing to Boil an Egg

Derek Jacobi: A Life on Stage and Screen

Derek Jacobi, the legendary British actor, is 87 years old and still refuses to look in the mirror. In an intimate interview at his London home, he discusses his career, his husband Richard Clifford, and his determination to reach 100. Jacobi, known for his roles in I, Claudius, Vicious, and Last Tango in Halifax, reveals his insecurities about his appearance and his desire to have been a movie star like Rock Hudson.

Early Life and Career

Jacobi grew up in Leytonstone, East London, as an only child. After contracting rheumatic fever at nine, he spent 18 months in bed, listening to radio and watching TV, which sparked his ambition to become an actor. He studied history at Cambridge and soon joined the National Theatre, where he was mentored by Laurence Olivier. "He loved the young actors and nurtured us," Jacobi recalls. "Wonderful."

Personal Life and Relationship

Jacobi has been with Richard Clifford for 47 years. Clifford, an actor and director, manages much of Jacobi's life. Their home is filled with art and humor, reflecting their personalities. Clifford notes that Jacobi is "much better at acting than life," unable to boil an egg or handle daily chores. Jacobi admits he relies on Clifford for everything: "Richard provides it."

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Reflections on Ageing and Health

Jacobi is determined to live to 100, though Clifford jokes about driving off Beachy Head. Jacobi has let "the old man in," but insists he hasn't given up. He drinks two glasses of white wine at lunch and takes a siesta, feeling he has earned it. Despite physical challenges, he continues to work, recently starring in the film Moss and Freud as Lucian Freud.

Career Highlights and Challenges

Jacobi has worked with many greats, including Daniel Craig, whom he slept with twice on screen. He directed Kenneth Branagh in Hamlet but admits he wasn't a natural director. He also discusses the terrifying directors John Dexter and Bill Gaskill, who bludgeoned performances out of him. Jacobi's memoir, As Luck Would Have It, emphasizes his gratitude for a fortunate life.

Impact of Aids

Clifford appeared in the Aids drama It's A Sin, and the couple reflects on losing many friends to the disease. Jacobi calls it "a terrible plague time" and recalls being told it was a "gay plague." Despite the fear, they remained safe by not "playing around."

Conclusion

Jacobi's interview is filled with humor and honesty. He cries easily, laughs often, and remains passionate about acting. As he struggles to stand, he jokes about shrinking. Clifford sums up their relationship: "The sense of ridicule has saved us."

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