A viral video showing a woman confronting a Marks & Spencer employee about gender-neutral changing rooms has sparked debate, with trans activist Charlie Craggs arguing that anti-trans women need to get a life. The incident, which took place at the Colchester branch, shows the customer harassing a worker, claiming the policy is unsafe and unlawful. The employee calmly explained that the changing rooms are safe and asked her to leave when she became abusive.
Real Threats vs. Manufactured Fears
Craggs, who experienced a transphobic hate crime over the weekend, contrasts her reality with the woman's complaints. While the customer claimed to feel unsafe in an empty store, Craggs faced a group of teenagers shouting slurs outside her home. She argues that gender-critical activists are manufacturing fears about trans people, while trans individuals suffer real violence and discrimination.
The Legal Context
The woman's claim that M&S is breaking the law is incorrect. The Equality and Human Rights Commission's guidance on sex-based protections applies to single-sex spaces, not unisex changing rooms with individual cubicles, which many stores have used safely for years. Craggs notes that recent Supreme Court rulings on the definition of 'woman' have been misinterpreted by anti-trans activists.
Broader Issues Ignored
Craggs points out that gender-critical voices often overlook real threats to women, such as inadequate rape convictions, violence against Black women, and Islamophobia. She highlights that the same week of the M&S incident, multiple women were killed or harmed, yet these activists focus on perceived threats from trans people.
The employee was later doxxed online by gender-critical accounts, further illustrating the hostility of the movement. Craggs concludes that transphobic activists do not care about women's safety, but only about themselves, while trans people bear the brunt of hate crimes.



