In a heartening tale of modern romance, two strangers found unexpected connection over dinner in the Midlands. Amanda, a 56-year-old performance assessor, met Paul, a 53-year-old networks manager, for a Guardian Blind Date at Caravelli in Loughborough. The result was a resounding success, with both parties awarding high marks and swapping numbers for a potential future meeting.
A Promising Start and Flowing Conversation
Paul arrived early, his only awkward moment being a wait outside the closed restaurant. First impressions were immediately positive. He described Amanda as "tall and smiley", while she found him "fit, northern and exactly my type". The conversation, far from stalling, flowed effortlessly from the outset.
They covered a vast array of topics, including food, wine, travel, politics, and a shared love for the comedian Alan Partridge. "What didn't we talk about?" Paul remarked, highlighting the ease of their interaction. Amanda was pleased to find someone who could deliver stimulating conversation alongside the possibility of that elusive romantic spark.
The Verdict from the Daters
When asked for the most awkward moment, both singled out the waiters' enthusiasm. Amanda cited "waiters wanting an on-the-spot review of what we thought of each other" as the peak of slight discomfort. Table manners passed muster, though Amanda confessed to diving straight into the bread basket.
Their mutual appreciation was clear. Paul's best thing about Amanda was her "flowing conversation" and open-mindedness, describing her in three words as "Engaging, educated, Oasis-mad". Amanda praised Paul as adventurous, genuine, and open, noting his physical fitness and zest for seeing the world. Both agreed they would happily introduce the other to their friends.
After Dinner and Future Prospects
The evening did not end with the meal. The pair continued their date at a "proper old pub" nearby for a drink. They parted on excellent terms with a friendly peck on the cheek. Paul gave the entire evening a perfect 10 out of 10, stating he would change nothing. Amanda was slightly more reserved with an 8.5 out of 10, but equally keen.
Crucially, both expressed a definite interest in meeting again. "Yes, we certainly connected and swapped numbers," Paul confirmed. Amanda echoed the sentiment with a simple "Yes."
How to Take Part in a Guardian Blind Date
The Guardian's long-running Blind Date column, a staple of Saturday magazine since 2009, pairs two strangers for dinner. Participants are asked about their age, occupation, interests, and what they seek in a partner. The newspaper handles the matching based on provided details.
Applicants must be based in the UK. Successful daters feature with their first name, age, job, and a photograph selected by the Guardian team. Those interested in embarking on their own adventure can apply by emailing blind.date@theguardian.com.
