In the latest instalment of The Guardian's long-running Blind Date column, two strangers found common ground over tapas, books, and reggae reggae crisps, proving that sometimes, letting someone else play matchmaker can pay off.
A Promising Start in the Capital
Karyshma, a 27-year-old financial data analyst, was paired with Arun, a 36-year-old radiographer, for a dinner at Parrillan in London's SE1. The weekly feature, which has been pairing strangers since 2009, aimed to provide a break from what Karyshma described as the "Hinge monotony" of modern dating apps.
Both arrived with hopeful expectations. Karyshma, a self-described romantic, was looking for a memorable evening and good company. Arun simply hoped for someone interesting and easy to talk to. First impressions were positive, with each complimenting the other's smile.
Conversation Flows Over Shared Interests
The pair discovered a surprising amount in common. Their conversation meandered through topics from Instagram and family dynamics to film, books, and travel. They even bonded over a discussion about Malaysia, with Arun keen to point out it shouldn't only be known for its food.
The most awkward moment came not from a lull in conversation, but from a shared plate of tapas. "Neither of us wanted to finish the last bits," Karyshma revealed. The waitress had to visit the table multiple times before they eventually cleared it.
Arun praised Karyshma's "lovely laugh" and found her engaging, while she highlighted his skills as a conversationalist. "He listens, responds thoughtfully, and is open about his life and experiences," she said.
An Abrupt End and Future Plans
The evening was cut slightly short due to an unforeseen mishap. Karyshma's contact lens fell out towards the end of the date, prompting an early finish. However, Arun gallantly walked her to her bus stop and waited with her, a gesture she appreciated.
When it came to scoring the date, Karyshma gave it a solid 8 out of 10, citing "good food and good company," though she noted the venue was quite loud. Arun declined to give a mark, instead offering compliments, but later conceded to a perfect 10.
While there was no kiss and no instant romantic spark confessed by Karyshma, both expressed a clear interest in meeting again. They have exchanged numbers, with Arun stating definitively, "Yes, definitely, I'd be interested to find out more about her." Karyshma was similarly open, saying she was "happy to see how things develop."
The Guardian's Blind Date column continues to seek applicants from across the UK, pairing individuals for a dinner where the only expectation is a good story.
