Elderly Hungarian Women in Carnival Costumes Share Wisdom on Longevity and Happiness
In a heartwarming series titled "Carnival Celebrations in Retirement Homes in Hungary," photographer János Bődey captures the vibrant spirit of elderly residents embracing life through festive costumes. The image features Mrs. Géza Bölcskey, née Magdolna Tarján, aged 87, and Mrs. Ferenc Németh, née Irén Alapi, aged 86, dressed as a bride and groom during carnival celebrations at a retirement home in Páty, near Budapest.
Secrets to a Fulfilling Life
After photographing the pair in the home's lounge, Bődey engaged them in a deep conversation about their lives. When asked the secret to a happy and long life, Magdolna attributed it to good genes, noting she has never experienced headaches or significant pain. She emphasized maintaining an active lifestyle, still taking four long walks weekly. Irén advised a healthy, active life with plenty of walking and travel, coupled with financial prudence. She recalled her grandmother's wisdom: "Only spend what you have, because debt eats from the same plate as you."
Both women highlighted the importance of long and happy marriages. Magdolna lived with her husband for over 50 years, while Irén shared 62 years with her spouse until their deaths, underscoring the role of enduring relationships in their well-being.
Challenges Faced by Hungarian Pensioners
Bődey's series sheds light on the harsh realities for elderly individuals in Hungary. The average pension is approximately £500 per month, making it difficult for retirees to afford more than basic necessities, let alone leisure, culture, or travel. Health standards for Hungarian pensioners also lag behind Western norms. Additionally, securing a spot in a retirement home is a prolonged process, often requiring years of waiting for a suitable place.
Despite these challenges, Bődey aimed to showcase individuals who overcome such difficulties and lead fulfilling lives. He views them as role models for both their peers and the middle generation, encouraging proactive planning for retirement.
Changing Attitudes Toward Retirement Homes
The photographer notes a shift in how elderly people approach moving into retirement homes. Historically, families often forced the decision as a last resort. Today, many seniors recognize when family care is insufficient and actively research and choose homes themselves. Bődey observes that personality traits intensify with age, influencing how individuals adapt to this transition. Some, like those in his carnival series, embrace it with cheer and creativity.
A Personal and Professional Journey
For Bődey, this project offered a joyful contrast to his usual work covering conflicts for Telex, an independent online newspaper. Having reported on social and political issues, including the Ukraine war near Hungary's border and stressful election campaigns, he found inspiration in the carnival's playful atmosphere. The series, created during February celebrations marking winter's end, reminded him of the importance of preparing for retirement by gathering emotional and financial resources, setting goals, and embracing creativity.
Bődey's connection to elderly subjects stems from childhood, having lost his grandparents early. He finds solace in conversations with content seniors, which positively impacts his own well-being. His career path also reflects resilience; after 13 years in corporate management as an economics graduate, he switched to photojournalism at age 35.
Recognition and Exhibition
The series has gained acclaim, with Bődey shortlisted for the Sony World Photography Awards 2026 and recognized by the International Photography Festivals Association 2025. An exhibition at Somerset House in London from April 17 to May 4 will showcase his work, offering Guardian readers a 15% discount on tickets with the code GUARDIAN15 until May 4 at 5 PM.
Through this project, Bődey emphasizes that retirement should be approached with intention, not left to chance. By highlighting the joy and wisdom of elderly Hungarians, he inspires others to plan ahead and cherish life's later years with vitality and purpose.
